For Parents and Caregivers
Never Shake a Baby.
Taking care of a baby can be stressful. Babies take a lot of
time and energy and it is normal to feel overwhelmed by the
responsibility of caring for a baby. Babies often cry or
fuss as a way of trying to tell someone that their needs
aren’t being met. They may be hungry, wet, too cold, too
hot, lonely, scared, sleepy or sick. Other times babies
seem to cry for no reason at all. Many times you are just
left guessing. Crying babies can make even the best parents
and caregivers feel frustrated, worried, or tense. It is
okay to have these feelings, but it is never okay to take
those feelings out on babies by shaking them.
Shaken Baby Syndrome (SBS) occurs when an infant or small
child is shaken vigorously. Infants between the ages of 3
and 6 months are the most frequent victims of Shaken Baby
Syndrome, but it can happen to children of any age. Infants
are at greatest risk for injuries due to shaking because
they have heavy heads and weak neck muscles that don’t offer
much support. This allows their heads to snap back and
forth, possibly causing physical injuries and sometimes even
death.
One in four babies who are shaken die. Those babies that
survive being shaken usually endure life-long injuries
including:
- Brain damage
- Blindness
- Spinal injury/paralysis
- Mental retardation
- Seizures
- Deafness
How to Care for a Crying Baby
- Check to see if the baby’s diaper needs to be changed.
- Is the baby thirsty or hungry? Try offering the baby
something to eat or drink.
- Does the baby have gas? Try burping the baby or rubbing
the baby’s back.
- Is the baby feeling too warm or cold? Does he need more
or less clothing, or does he feel feverish? Try changing
the baby’s amount of covering or clothing, and/or take the
baby’s temperature.
- Is the baby lonely or scared? Does holding and speaking
softly calm the baby and make her feel more secure?
- Is the baby overly stimulated or tired? Try making the
environment more quiet and calm. Remove the baby from an
active area, put away extra toys, turn down the television
or radio.
- Does the baby just need to cry? Sometimes babies get so
worked up they just need to cry it out. Letting a baby cry
for a little while won’t hurt him.
How You Can Prevent Shaken Baby Syndrome
- Never shake a baby for any reason.
- Always provide support for a baby’s head when you are
holding, playing with or moving the baby.
- If the baby is crying, try to discover why. Check to
see if the baby’s diaper needs to be changed, whether the
baby is hungry, too hot or cold, lonely, scared, or whether
she is not feeling well.
- Find ways to pacify the baby. Hold and cuddle the baby,
rock the baby, sing or talk to the baby, offer a pacifier,
play calming music, take the baby for a walk.
- Find ways to help yourself stay or become more calm.
- Put the baby down in a SAFE place while you go into
another room and shut the door. It is okay to let a baby
cry for a little while.
- Take some deep breaths
- Call a friend
- Do something nice for yourself: play music, exercise,
take a shower, read a magazine
- Change your activity: shake a rug, do dishes or
laundry, beat a pan or pillow, throw away trash
- Ask someone else to watch the baby for you—a friend,
relative, neighbor.
- Learn what to do if the baby won’t stop crying. What
are specific things that usually help the baby calm down?
Make a plan or have some ideas for ways to calm the baby and
yourself down when the baby starts crying.
- Don’t play rough with babies and young children. Even
some play activities can cause brain damage to young
children. Avoid play that includes the tossing of children
in the air or bouncing on an adult’s swinging leg, swinging
children by arms or ankles, or jogging while carrying an
infant on your back or shoulders.
- Let everyone who cares for the baby know about the
dangers of shaking a baby. Remind other caretakers of the
danger of rough play as well as how to carefully handle a
baby in order to avoid injuries.
If you do shake a baby, accidentally or on purpose, take the
baby to the emergency room immediately. You may feel
embarrassed or guilty, but potential injuries can’t be
treated unless someone knows.
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