Be realistic.
The first thing to do is to let go of lofty expectations of what constitutes ‘quality’ time with your children, suggests Patti Herman, Executive Director of Prevent Child Abuse Wisconsin. ‘The time you spend with your children while traveling is special, but it will undoubtedly be different than you expected—and that’s okay,’ Herman explained. You can expect that your trip will include some wonderful moments together, as well as some moments that are not so wonderful! It will all become part of the memory of the trip.

It is also important to be realistic about what you can expect from your child based on the child’s age and stage of development. As you plan activities to keep your children entertained between stops remember that a toddler has a much shorter attention span and will need toys that offer greater stimulation than a more mature child who may be entertained by activities like reading or coloring.

Encourage children to be involved with planning and preparing for the trip.
Allowing your children to be involved with planning the trip helps build anticipation, keeps their interest, and helps them prepare for the new things they will experience. To help your children prepare for vacation have them check to see what the weather is going to be like at your destination, or trace the route you plan to travel on a map and identify landmarks and historical points of interest. It’s also a good idea to enlist your children’s help in gathering what toys and activities they want to bring along.

Make the most of your time with your children.
Herman notes that going on a trip can add to your family’s sense of togetherness. She suggests singing songs with your children, taking turns telling stories or playing games like counting all the red cars or out-of-state license plates, guessing how many miles to your destination, or Twenty Questions.

Eat on time.
Hunger can make even the most good-natured people grumpy. Try to stick to a regular snack and meal schedule and take along your family’s favorite healthy snacks in case you can’t locate a place to eat when it’s mealtime.

Stop frequently.
As you plan your trip, make sure to take into account time for rest stops. Make rest stops even if no one thinks they need to use the restroom. This will help you avoid needing a restroom when there isn’t one available. Being able to move around and stretch also helps keep everyone comfortable, and the driver more alert.

Keep it tidy.
Traveling in a car can be messy! Bring along a sponge or towel to clean up any spills and handy wipes for sticky hands. Designate a trash bag and take a moment to empty the trash and clean up every evening.

Be safe.
Bring along an emergency kit that includes band-aids, scissors, antiseptic and any other medications that family members need. It’s also a good idea to bring along a flashlight, and in case of an accident, any pertinent information. Cameras come in handy for taking pictures to provide proof of any accidents, and cell phones can help you contact emergency workers. Stay focused and alert while driving and make sure everyone always wears their seat belt and that young children are in appropriate car seats. Never leave your children in the car alone, especially with the car running.

With a little preparation and a sense of humor and adventure, your family travels can be safe and enjoyable.

For more suggestions on summer safety issues, contact Prevent Child Abuse at 1-800-CHILDREN or visit www.preventchildabusewi.org.